I’m sure your monogamous friends are lovely people and probably have some great advice . . . about other topics. But when it comes to non-monogamy, let’s face it, it’s best to hear it from someone who’s been there before. Enter: relationship advisor and polyamorous guru Sam Cat. Sam’s personal experience with polyamory, alongside their work educating, speaking with and supporting other non-monogamous folks, allows them to masterfully take on the role of a peer so you can finally have the answers to all your burning questions: What relationship structure is best for me? How do I tell my partner I want to open up? Is it normal to feel jealous? Should I be friends with my partner’s partner? Does more sex really equal more problems? Featuring real-life examples, endless empathy and a touch of brutal honesty, this book will give you - and your partner(s) - everything you need to start forming healthy, respectful and emotionally-fulfilling relationships that last.

Sam Cat is the founder of Shrimp Teeth, an online platform aimed at educating others about polyamory and queerness. Sam regularly conducts peer mentoring sessions for clients seeking advice on ethical non-monogamy and relationship challenges. Sam lives in Portland, Oregon.