Am I really bisexual if I haven't kissed someone of the same gender?
How do I handle people sexualising my identity?
What does it mean if I like one gender more than others?
With advice from bi+ activists and influencers including Megan Jayne Crabbe, Sofie Hagen, Pearl Mackie, and Zachary Zane, this is your guide to thriving as a bi, pan, or queer young person. Tackling everything from myths, misconceptions and biphobia, to coming out, dating and sex, Laura Clarke - sex educator and LGBTQIA+ expert - will help you explore, reflect on, and embrace your bi+ identity.

An absolute gift of a book. Clarke guides readers through the joys and challenges of bi+ identity with an abundance of heart, compassion, and wisdom. What shines through in every page is Clarke's belief that queerness is an experience of possibilities, not limitations. I wish I had this book as a young person, and I'm sure many young readers will find the courage to be themselves in its pages. -- Cody Daigle-Orians, author and asexuality educator, @acedadadvice
The uplifting, reassuring guide I wish I'd had when I was figuring out my sexuality. Laura writes with so much humour and warmth and I know this is going to be an invaluable resource for so many young people. -- Milly Evans, award-winning sex educator and author of Honest
This book made me realise just how deep in the closet I'd been - buried under years of bi erasure and biphobia. It gave me a sense of belonging I didn't know I was missing -- Shaparak Khorsandi

Laura Clarke is an accredited sex educator and LGBTQIA+ specialist, delivering workshops and training to young people and professionals on all things relationships, gender and sexuality. She can be found at mybodyandyours.com and @mybodyandyours on TikTok. Laura lives in Bath with their partner and an ever-growing mountain of books about sex. Step Bi Step is her first book.